SUPPORT FROM OTHER CHARITIES
Losing a baby, at whatever age, or stage of pregnancy is something none of us ever think about, but sadly 14 babies a day die or are stillborn after 24 weeks, or die soon after birth. Sands charity offers support on dealing with the death of your baby, and on some of the practical considerations. Most of Sands’ volunteers have personally suffered from the loss of a baby so are in a particularly good place to empathise with you and to give you that support.
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The contact number for support from Sands in East Kent is 07888 967463, or by email at support.eastkent@sandsvolunteer.org.uk. The East Kent Sands website is www.eastkent.sands.org.uk
Other local Sands groups provide similar support services in their particular areas.
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West Kent and Medway Sands www.facebook.com/SandsKent
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Tunbridge Wells Sands www.facebook.com/tunbridgewellssands
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Hastings and East Sussex Sands www.facebook.com/hastingssands
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There is a Sands national helpline Freephone: 0808 164 3332 or Email: helpline@sands.org.uk The Helpline is usually open Monday to Friday: 10am – 3pm and Tuesday, Wednesday and Thursday evenings: 6pm – 9pm. The Sands Helpline is free to call from any UK mobile or landline and hours are sometimes extended at particular times of the year or following media or television soap stories.
Sands has a number of other ways of providing support including its Facebook support group www.facebook.com/groups/SandsSupportGroup/ the Sands Bereavement Support App www.sands.org.uk/about-sands/sands-bereavement-support-app and the Sands Online Community www.sands.org.uk/support-you/how-we-offer-support/online-community
Sands offers a really good support booklet which every family should be offered at the time of their loss, but can also be downloaded through the following link:
www.sands.org.uk/support/bereavement-support/sands-bereavement-support-book
OTHER ORGANISATIONS OFFERING SUPPORT
A great many organisations support people affected by the death of a baby, some offering support only in very specific situations, others providing more general support. Some are very local while others operate across the whole country and here is an alphabetical list of some of those organisations.
Further information and contact details for most of these are also at
www.babyloss-awareness.org/charities/
Over time we will add to this list and if you are a support organisation that would like to be included, please let us know.
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'Abigail's Footsteps' is based in Medway and provides care and support to families who have suffered a bereavement, as well as education for healthcare professionals directly involved with caring for bereaved parents. www.abigailsfootsteps.co.uk/
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Aching Arms raising awareness and providing aching arms teddy bears to bereaved families www.achingarms.co.uk/
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Aidan's Elephants providing support for bereaved parents and families. www.aidanselephants.co.uk/
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The Alexa Trust www.thealexatrust.org
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APS Support supporting people with Antiphospholipid syndrome (APS), a blood clotting disorder is a leading cause of miscarriage, stillbirth and pre-eclampsia www.aps-support.org.uk/
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ARC (antenatal results and choices) helps parents and professionals through antenatal screening and its consequences www.arc-uk.org/
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Baby Lifeline providing equipment, training and research www.demelza.org.uk/
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Brief Lives provides support, including help in finding a baby's grave. www.brieflives-remembered.co.uk
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Bliss exists to give every baby born premature or sick in the UK the best chance of survival and quality of life. www.bliss.org.uk/
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Canterbury and District Early Years Project www.canterburydeyp.org.uk
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Child Bereavement UK Supports families when a baby or child dies or is dying, or when a child is facing bereavement. www.childbereavementuk.org
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CMV Action offers advice and support to anyone affected by congenital cytomegalovirus, a common virus that can infect people of all ages www.cmvaction.org.uk
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Cruse Bereavement Care provides support and information when someone dies www.cruse.org.uk
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Dads Unlimited www.dadsunltd.org.uk
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Deal breastfeeding Group www.dealbreastfeedingsupportgroup.co.uk
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Demelza House is a children’s hospice providing vital care to families across East Sussex, Kent and South East London www.demelza.org.uk
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The Ectopic Pregnancy Trust Supporting people who have experienced an early pregnancy complication https://www.ectopic.org.uk
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4 Louis, like Sands, provides memory boxes to families, free of charge www.4louis.co.uk
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Holding On Letting Go is a Kent-based charity that helps children to cope with the death of someone close to them. www.holdingonlettinggo.org.uk
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Homestart has dedicated, experienced volunteers who provide support for families with at least one child under the age of five who may be experiencing a wide range of difficulties. For Ashford www.home-start-ashford.co.uk and for Thanet www.homestartthanet.org.uk
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ICP Support provides information and support on intrahepatic cholestasis of pregnancy www.icpsupport.org
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Kicks Count empowering mums-to-be with knowledge and confidence www.kickscount.org.uk
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The Last Kiss Foundation provides equipment to allow parents to spend precious time with their child www.thelastkissfoundation.co.uk
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Life after Loss provides information and support after a loss www.lifeafterloss.org.uk
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The Lily Mae Foundation supports parents and families after a stillbirth or neonatal death www.lilymaefoundation.org
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The Lullaby Trust raising awareness of SIDS (sudden infant death syndrome) and providing support www.lullabytrust.org.uk
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Making Miracles providing baby trauma and bereavement care as well as the Baby Memorial Garden in Rochester www.makingmiracles.org.uk
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The Mariposa Trust www.mariposatrust.org
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MASS Miscarriage and Stillborn Support www.massuksupport.org
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Mayah's Legacy is based in Canterbury and is a UK Registered charity supporting families who have experienced pregnancy loss www.mayah.org.uk
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The Miscarriage Association www.miscarriageassociation.org.uk
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The Multiple Births Foundation www.multiplebirths.org.uk
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Petals Charity offers counselling for trauma or loss during pregnancy and birth www.petalscharity.org
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Spinal Muscular Athrophy Support UK www.smasupportuk.org.uk
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TAMBA the Twins and Multiple Births Association www.tamba.org.uk
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Together for Short Lives supports families of children with life threatening conditions www.togetherforshortlives.org.uk
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Rainbows Bereavement Supports helps children and young people grieve and grow after loss www.rainbowsgb.org
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The Samaritans offers a safe place for you to talk at any time in your own way about whatever is getting to you. www.samaritans.org
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Tommys www.tommys.org